being a parent of young children can be one of the toughest things in the world.
for some parents, more often than not it can be more a matter of survival than thriving and any hope of finding creative ways to raise your little people into being the world changers you hope that will be one day is often replaced by just trying to make it to the end of the day without killing any of them.
which is where this series comes in. i am not a parent myself, but i have heard some inspirational stories recently of some parents doing some things, which in some cases are very simple and in others took a more invested amount of involvement, which are likely to teach their children great lessons about living life well and ultimately will change the world. the idea is for me to collect a whole bunch of these ideas to hopefully inspire those who maybe don’t have the time or inclination to sit down and try and imagine them for themselves.
the hope is that you will find an idea, or ideas, that might work for you or that these stories might spark a different idea for you to try with your family.
let me say that i think being a parent is one of the most important ‘jobs’ in the world. it is so crucial and important and because there is no test you have to take to become one or manual to read that shows you how it will all play once you have one, must rank as one of the most scary things you can do in life, in terms of worrying that you will get it wrong.
which is why learning from those who have walked the journey can be a powerful thing…
THE PARENT, THE CHILD AND THE PAID-FOR-RESTAURANT-BILL LOTTERY
I heard the story of when my bossman and his wife Meeghan went out for a meal with their young son, Justice. After the meal was done, they turned to Justice and said he could look around the restaurant and pick any family he wanted and they would pay for that family’s meal. So essentially they were the ones doing the good deed, but by inviting Justice to make the choice it suddenly started to feel like his good deed. So he picked a family and they went to the front and paid for their bill and the other family’s meal. Then the hardest part happened when they took Justice out without being able to watch the family receive the gift [a further lesson in terms of doing something good in secret].
‘There are a lot of times that people get to thank us or times we get to witness the impact of our sharing. This was a moment that it wasn’t necessary and perhaps more important for us not to need or receive.’ [Meeghan]
Simple, yet profound, because that is going to be a story that sticks with him. And because, more importantly, he was a part of it.
That is what this series is all about – as a parent, what creative life lesson have you been able to teach your child, or what practice do you do as a family that you feel will help them grow up to think differently and be different from the herd, in a world changing way?
Meet Bruce, Gemma, Emily and Mikaela
Meet cousin David and the members of his clan
Meet Three Manns and a little Goat
Meet Nigel and Trish and their five kids who moved into a dangerous area in Hillbrow, South Africa
Meet Lara, Chris and their daughters who also moved into a dangerous area in Philadelphia, Americaland
Meet Lisa and her children Hailey, Noah and Isaiah who also moved into a dangerous area in San Francisco, Americaland
Meet Dalene Reyburn and read the letter she writes to her two boys to see them grow up as world changers
Meet Ro, Ad and Aaléyah and hear about the time they gave Jesus a shark!
A very worthwhile addition to this list is a reading of this letter from Magda Pecsenye to her sons about stopping rape [Excellent read for any parent!]
Look forward to sharing and hearing some more stories.
[If you have one you would like to share please email it to brettfish@hotmail.com – I won’t necessarily use them all, but it will be great to have a whole bunch to choose from]
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