great words of marriage wisdom from my good friend Debbie [who once taught me how to play 30 Seconds, for the second time]

Realize that in the difficult stuff you are NOT against each other. Together, as a Team, face the issue. Don’t put it in between you. LISTEN to each others NEEDS. Actively love, in words, in actions, in selflessness, in putting their needs above your own. Can I just throw in there that Theran is awesome. Husband punt done. X

[Debbie Knighton-Fitt, married for 5 years]

to continue to the part with x in the number…